Wait Don't Head for Divorce Yet
Statistics shows that most of the divorces happen either in the first or second year of marriage or when the couple are in their 50s. If you analyze further you will see that in most cases, the children have grown and left home. This is a delicate time for both the partners, for there are faced with mid life crisis and many head for divorces and few manage to seek help to resolve their issues and begin a new phase of life and discover new meaning in life too.
Couples face many issues at this point of time in life. Awareness of each issue one is facing as well as being able to isolate each problem and trying to find solution may be a practical way of overcoming difficult times.
This is a very delicate period both for men as well as women. Women tend to go through menopausal phase besides having to face the empty nest syndrome at home. They undergo tremendous emotional as well as hormonal changes that can cause havoc with their moods, energy as well as psychological mental makeup. This is the time when they need a lot of reassurance and support from the spouse as well as family to get over things and get control over their life.
In case of men too similar mid life crisis does surface at this point of time. But then not many people know that men too go through menopause similar to women. Hence not much importance is given to the problems faced by men. The male body, which produces the male hormone, called testosterone starts slowing down on the production of this hormone with the natural aging process of the body. It is at this time that the levels of this hormone start dropping low. This hormone is responsible for the sexual drive as well as muscular strength in the male body. Though the hormone production does not cease completely, the low levels of hormone secretion can cause a loss of sexual drive besides causing the same emotional and physical symptoms like hot flushes, obesity, mood swings, lethargy etc in men too.
At this juncture, women are looking for emotional as well as physical intimacy, which can reassure them that they are still important and feel cared for. Men on the other hand find it hard to feel the urge to engage in the physical passion for they do not have the drive as well as energy required. Many cases men suffer from erectile dysfunction, which may be caused due to a lot of factors affecting men’s life. Factors like medical problems including diabetes, blood pressure, emotional stress, anxiety and depression etc., can cause this condition where the affected person is not able to achieve erection or sustain erection due to loss of blood supply to penis. Therefore when combined with this physical condition and a hormonal imbalance, he is likely to find a lot of problems to deal with and seeks support from the spouse.
At this juncture, instead of heading for a breakdown in relationship, what is required is an understanding of what each one is going through, seeking medical help and getting over with the problems together, by supporting each other.
Men should seek medical help from the doctor, who after understanding the condition will be able to prescribe necessary hormone replacement therapy as well as prescribe Cialis as daily doze to overcome the erectile dysfunction problem. This problem can get cured within a day after starting oral consumption of Cialis.
It is easy to breakup but difficult to make up. When you make up and begin a new life, every moment is filled with new discovery.